By Chrishara Sreejayan
How many times a day do we chuck that phrase around? As soon as something doesn’t go our way, our default response will often be “It’s not fair!” So I asked myself, what makes something fair or not fair. We live in a world which tells us exactly how we should be treated and how we she should treat other people; if someone does something wrong by us, we have every right to be forever angry, unforgiving and some would even say, the right to hurt them back. I know, whenever I’m in that sort of situation, those are the very things I feel and want to do.
Jesus gets it. He totally gets it. Jesus totally screamed “It’s not fair!” when he said “Father…Take this cup from me…” (Mark 14:36). What do we do when we’re in that position of something not being seemingly just by us? It’s so easy to wallow in the unfairness of the situation; to get angry at God and go and ‘cry in a corner’. This was my routine whenever something didn’t go my way. What sucks about this whole way of living, is the mere fact that it doesn’t achieve anything! It doesn’t fix the situation neither does it get us what we seemingly think we deserve.
What does Jesus do? Here’s the previous verse with the second part “Father, everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.” (Mark 14:36). We’ve got to trust Him. I doubt Jesus could truly feel the amazing outcome of Him dying on the cross, as he hung, bleeding and burdened. But He trusted. He trusted that God’s will was the best option, although it would have been so hard to see in that moment.
Jesus was born into this world, KNOWING, that this unfair moment would happen. Imagine, waking up each day knowing that something slack was being done or going to be done to you? Wait up, you get it too! Each day Jesus had to commit His will under God’s will; that’s exactly what we need to do. We may not feel like it, or even be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but God’s promised the BEST for us!
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. (Romans 8:28-29)



“I’ve learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I’m just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I’ve found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.” Phil 4:12-13

The greatness of a man’s power is the measure of his surrender. -William Boot
If we are hungry for growth, to be closer to Jesus, to go deeper in our relationship with Him, then we need the basic desire to want to change ourselves.



